If they are embarrassed of meeting on a dating appĭating apps have been around for over a decade at this point. I’m much more into the people who want to have a conversation about which Hogwarts house we belong to and can also get into conversations about what type of music we like or a book I haven’t heard of before but they swear changed their life.ĥ. What facts are unique to you? Making loving something that everyone on Earth loves your entire personality doesn’t allow me to get to know you better. Loving The Office or Harry Potter is great (and like, same), but most people love those, too. If they make a very non-original thing their entire personality
I love a sense of humor, but I also care about being with someone who’s proud of their education and job, not someone who wants to say they went to Krusty Krab Academy.Ĥ. If they list their education or occupation as a joke on an app, I don’t even want to know what you’d say behind closed doors.ģ. Frankly, I don’t want to see any of the “isms” on a dating app (or dating, period)-if you have the audacity to show even a little bit of racism, homophobia, fatphobia, xenophobia, etc. Oh, you “don’t want a girl who’s like other girls” or you state on a dating profile that you “aren’t into the girls that come with drama?” Thank you, next. If their bio says anything even remotely sexist If I want a relationship, I’m no longer going to pursue people who say they don’t and hope I’ll change my mind (n ewsflash: I won’t), and vice versa.Ģ. I’m not saying you can never turn the f*ckboy into marriage material or have a casual hookup with the girl who is looking for something serious, but when someone tells you what they want, believe them. If they ask you what you’re looking for and you give an answer that doesn’t align with what they’re looking for, you want different things, period. Time and time again, we get ourselves in situations we could have prevented if we stuck to our guns. And for me, these 12 red flags are a hard swipe left.
I am simply sharing my own experience and preferences after seeking both men and women on various dating apps for about seven years in case it helps save you time or inspire you to make your own ground rules. Quick disclosure: If your partner of five years has every single one of these in their bio and you’re in a healthy relationship, I am so happy for you both! These are not universal red flags-everyone is different and wants different things (and there are always exceptions to the rule when it comes to love). Once I stopped focusing on trying to please everyone I matched with on a dating app, I set some ground rules based on my experience, and now I’m sharing them with you to inspire you to make your own ground rules.
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